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I tried to put on the Stavros episode and for the first 6 mins Ethan is just grilling stavros about losing weight, since last time he was on ethan was bigger and they talked about both losing weight. I suspect it's because many Chinese women have intense desire to be rail thin. I've always had fantasies about becoming famous numquamsolus. since then that was basically my life over. So true, you have to have a very thick skin to be a short guy. So like almost everyone here I'm (once again) in the process of shedding some excess weight. We learn, often in our most vulnerable years, that we are only as good as our size, and our self-worth is measured in pounds. And it’s a huge huge portion of men. There is a very fine line between being committed to eating healthy and being obsessed with eating healthy. i am so obsessed with having tiny skinny legs (the rs leg one may say) and i think i will probably be thinking about having a thigh gap when i’m on my death bed. She yells at me every time I eat and monitors every For as long as I could remember my dad has always had the obsession with me and my sister being thin. I’d budget $450 for this. If i dont look skinny in the mirror on Like just get back on it girl. It will take time. Seriously?! God given metabolism is a blessing not an achievement. some are and some aren’t. Slow eating (small mouthfuls and lots of chewing). i think it’s just genetics, as well as Nov 5, 2023 · You Consider Food to Be Good or Bad. Height in a man is attractive, but if you think you can't attract women without being 6' you're kidding yourself and making excuses. Ham Princess- the fryer fire/abuses a 14 year old. 16. i’m 18 and it genuinely annoys me how much my brain seems to care about my There is also a difference between being skinny, and being thin. Being thin inherently means being viewed as more valuable than a plus sized person. Being too strict with a diet in the past has always caused me to eventually give up. 10% improvement!! I’ve gotten obsessed over many people. Individuals make comments about how much weight I’ve lost since bearing kids. g. r/AskReddit is the place to ask When I was a kid my mom would often grab my skinny arm and say, “eye-goo-yah… you’re too skinny. And most of you may perceive this as a positive thing. Obsessed with being right? I'm a girl, who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Q&A. get your hazmat suit 😷. Why are asian women obsessed with weight. In short women who are obsessed with height are insecure about their own height. Or like pedophile adjacent. As noted before, it can be obsessive, especially for young Chinese women (18–29 years of age) who are tied with South Korean women for the lowest body fat at 2%. Lemon_Fox_. I'm talking about straight up fat, overweight, obese whatever you want to put it. The idol industry is eventually based on a kind of idolization. Impatient and obsessed about weight loss. Reply reply. My female students starve themselves to be this thin. Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - No votes and 5 comments i’ve become so obsessed with my appearance, it’s all i think about. Considering how many women under 30 commenting that they have body dysmorphia- it’s clearly always been an issue, being thin and having an ideal body, and always will be. You can easily pay $450+/month on exercise alone. If your lips are not of regular fullness or better, you’re severely less attractive. Look at me now 🤣😂 Exercise and portion control. (this) McNuggets of fat logic. I have been overweight before and it was new to me and made me feel uncomfortable. focus on your job. She has the money to be able to keep paying for it. $1k+. Maybe join some groups to find some new friends. For them you dont look good when you have a slight belly (woman can have a little bit of fat and still be attractive). Then i gained some weight and now im sitting at 80 kgs. Reply reply More replies. Women in these countries especially have a body image focused on being overly skinny, so waistlines and weight are sometimes obsessive goals. Many times if someone disagrees with a point another user passionately makes, that user is then accused of "being angry", as if that somehow dismisses or disproves their point. They aren’t denied medical care solely because of their weight. But the issue is that over time she got really obsessed with it. Idk why it’s only summers, but every summer I start going on crazy diets and walking a bunch and sleeping late so I have less time to eat and following accounts in Twitter that are extremely obsessed with being skinny and drinking a bunch of coffee and making Pinterest boards of my goal and looking up the proportions of supermodels. r/teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. A public subreddit for discussing the struggles of having an eating disorder. I understand now when female idols openly talked about the pressure to stay skinny and did all kinds of unhealthy diets to look their skinniest. Its essential element is 'appearance', and it is based on the aesthetic standards of East Asia, including Korea. And have noticed a few habits that I'm going to try to adopt. Go out if you like that stuff. i feel like i would feel better about myself and look better if The flip side of being the skinny kid is the ease of maintaining a relatively trim figure later on. So I changed that. I've decided that i don't need to place value on my body size anymore. Tall guys get pushed toward sport more so might be more athletic and have better social groups. Lips: the most important determinant of attractiveness. ago. i have a decent frame but i used to be obsessed with my body image and suffered ED for most of my adolescence. r/EDAnonymous. 100% agree. because I don't look like some K-pop star who weighs less than 50 kilograms," Damn they lax the standards by 5kg. Lose weight!” Edit: grammar! Lol Only that the man, is a man. No , you just look "fat". Im tired of hearing you constantly bragging with your skinniness and bodyshaming others. We've been living together for a little over a year. You need more exercise. Welcome to everyone, including native Koreans, Korean diaspora, and foreigners. And why do some people have motivations of saying “oh I wouldn’t date this girl because she’s fat. Even if you just sit and do nothing, it will distract you a bit. Lips are a binary. I actually like being skinny and Im a guy. They will give you dieting advice which can be triggering and probably is unhelpful. Once you are happy with yourself, you recognize the faults in your life and want to improve it. But yet, you rarely hear boys being shamed. Our subreddit is primarily for… She is too obsessed with being skinny like madam it's not your bloody achievement. 49 votes, 623 comments. They live in a paradigm where super model legs, height and etc are intrinsically attractive. 392 votes, 481 comments. Ham Princess- A healthy salad. Good luck! this was me in university except i was obsessed with zero carb lifestyle (thought i was obese and needed to eat keto despite being like 120 lbs). Love is wanting the good for another, and its degree is measured by one's willingness to sacrifice to achieve that good, even at the expense of one's best interests; whereas obsession is wanting someone for one's own sake irrespective of that person's best interests. But I guess its because most of my family was overweight even in the 90s. I go 4 times a week. I went to dance class when I was eight and remember seeing older girls with their slim legs and thigh gaps. That being fat is a sin. Reply reply Pretty confident 90% of photos people accuse of being photoshopped/tuned aren’t. You need to eat more. I know you only have a couple of classes to go, but it could be worth getting a loan to these monsters off of your back. Seeing certain foods as only good (e. I know this because I am definitely in the former camp. Try some new hobbies. Weird. I fit an australian 8-10 (2-6 US I think) on the top, and 10-12 (6 - 10US) on the bottom. Men marry skinny women and they get fact together, and they're still in love. Start a meditation of 5 min a day in the evening after you plan the next days food. You do not control her thoughts. There is a pressure to eat healthy, but when does eating healthy become unhealthy? Therefore, women with body hair are gross. i cant stand it. •. A slight belly for them means that you are already fat because back than thats how they viewed such people. Skinny implies low fat ratio, while thin implies beingvertically slender. From the first moment I saw him, he was all I could think about. Thin privilege exists because thin people are not denied basic human decency and compassion based solely on their weight and size. my arms are super hairy, my stomach is unattractive, and my I’ve seen so many the past few months saying how they look disgustingly skinny, look anorexic/bulimic, need to quit starving themselves, how skinny isn’t in anymore and that it isn’t attractive, Etc. Hi, yes, Koreans are obsessed with a skinny body. Thin people also need representation. It’s a norm dictated by standards of attractiveness and femininity, and breaking these norms is considered bad. Also thin people aren't obsessed with being thin. i don’t binge, and i don’t starve myself. It is hard since many foods available to consumers especially in the west today are unhealthy and some are even downright toxic if consumed repeatedly. That time I was gullible around Ham Princess (plus a mini story!) Physical education. It's much easier to accept yourself if you are accepted by others. Posted by u/bladdersux - 39 votes and 6 comments I am but I'm still thin. Men fall in love with fat women after liking skinny girls their entire life. i hate that i cant put in weight easily, i hate that i am considered skinny, i hate having any bit of a thigh gap. Others naturally bigger. Also, being denizens of the internet and especially reddit, we are obsessed with efficiency, counterculture, and eliminating pseudoscience in general. brain worms. Putting yourself out there is difficult and often scary. 779K subscribers in the ask community. I think one of the earliest instances was when I had bought my first bikini and my mom told me to show my dad because he was so excited for one of his daughters to be able to ware one and look nice. [deleted] • 8 yr. Like, no. Foreign residents struggle with Korea's 'impossible' body standards. Vent. It’s to a degree where I bet most teenage girls here are developing eating disorders. Couldn't be further from the truth in my opinion. It’s better to be thin than fat. A trip to the grocery store is just constantly being bombarded with dieting culture. Responsible, takes care of himself, productive, mature, funny and etc. I mean, more as a social thing than a mental illness like anorexia. b33r. , potatoes) could be a sign of focusing too strongly on weight loss. Thin lips can make even the most beautiful people in the world average/ugly and Vice versa. Ham Princess - The Cleanse. Different-Ad-9409. There's a societal expectation for the guy to be taller than the girl. Some say pleasant things, others say harsh things masked as praises, and others make naive If anything Thailand has two concurrent trends right now, an increase in obesity rates amoung the youth due to a larger consumption of western style diets and an awareness of maintaining a healthy lifestyle through working out more. I just hate that I've developed this unhealthy obsession with looking skinny, I might as well book an appointment with a therapist now, this is lowkey concerning. Enhancements/Surgery: Bi-weekly visits to Medspas for cool-sculpting and buccal fat removal. Don’t know why people expect people on social media to only post shitty photos of themself. You want to improve it. Maybe you will even find someone else, or a fuck buddy or a one night stand. But being in the 5’10 to 6’5 range is probably going to aesthetically look more pleasing, as well as give that Big Ol boy vibe many women like. OrbSwitzer. It's not weird or anything to feel ashamed of. I'm 5'5, ~135 pounds and so certainly not a small build. Despite all of this body positivity stuff and now the Kardashian family who look like Obsessed with becoming skinny. I think I've convinced myself I'm better than everyone else/more important and I can't get over it. In this dizzying flurry of unrealistic View community ranking In the Top 5% of largest communities on Reddit. In fact, if you're aware of the body revolution going on around us and logically understand that the long-held body ideals of our culture are not the norm, you're on the right path toward healing your relationship with your body. sure it would be nice if I was 50 lbs smaller but I'm not going to base my… I believe it was because the environment they grew up in. I hate admitting this about myself. Being skinny there was normal. She just listened to songs from her favorite groups and had fun. I'm six foot and 230. She clearly is obsessed with being skinny. Girls don't like short men, but men can't do jack shit about their height. I'm a solid twenty to thirty pounds over weight and I get told how "skinny" I look and it's fucking disgusting frankly. Every month I was excited and obsessed about something different and my coworkers were exasperated with me. The French paradox of how the French eat like they do and stay thin is because being fat is socially unacceptable and anybody and everybody feels free to comment on your weight/food choices. Boxfigs. Even things that shouldn’t really matter are considered disgusting by a lot of people, so we have to fight over things that don’t even seem like big deals. Being unhealthily overweight is very different to being 2 inches shorter than average. I'm not skinny. But you've got to understand that women are obsessed with it for a reason. Valiantlycaustic. Nowadays women occupy roles traditionally assigned to men and men want to be able to somehow differentiate themselves away from women. Like huge. Therapy can help, there are lots of options, now, like teletherapy or using a therapy app. This is background on this whole dynamic she built around me, her (grieving) child. I mean, it's okay to be regular skinny, but many Chinese women I met are often so skinny and underweight that they literally look like SKELETONS! As far as I know, 40kg-45kg is ideal weight for many Chinese women regardless of height. The obsession with it goes probably a bit too far, but being below average height will significantly lower the available dating options for men. It is, of course, entirely possible to be unhealthily skinny as well. getting obsessed with people? I fell in love like crazy and I've just remembered people can be special interests too so I guess I want to hear some feedback and ways to deal with it. Somehow Rippetoe has captured all of those ideals perfectly in his writing style, so he has become sort of our messiah. Exactly! I'm trying to expand my understanding of 'healthy' body types and accept my slight curves as ok and not something I have to get rid of because I'm May 7, 2023 · All that's to say, if you're wondering if you're behind the times for being trapped in the "thin is better" mentality, you're not. We understand that being too overweight is extraordinarily bad for our health so we overcorrected to associating being thin with being healthy. When I was obsessed with being skinny lol. Fat people are so obsessed with their body size, there's little head space for much else, and sometimes they go and make it their whole identity (fat queen/fat babe/funny fat friend). By becoming more confident, you become less needy and more attractive to women. The situation is, I've been constantly dating somebody since like 13. One of my friends was on it and got pregnant on it and said her doctor said she could continue with the med, she opted to stop. I will never be skinny enough. My fitness-obsessed ex boyfriend has the exact same mentality and it’s so disgusting to me. Or remove one junk food that you don't even like that much. Tall guys tend to be more confident since people treat them with more respect. My mom was very petite & became especially thin after my dad passed away. Am I obsessed? Or a gym rat? meatheads Body-obsessed beefcakes Men with a desire to get seriously jacked may be channeling their negative self-esteem toward women. I've recently been spending a lot more time with a friend who is very very slim - one of those people who 'struggles to put on weight'. I’ve gotten comments like that so many times over the years. Here is the strategy: Avoid being results-oriented in your discussion with her, as in, stop focusing on guessing what she is thinking and stop focusing on what she will say, yes or no. Most recently, about a year ago, I met a guy at my place of work. i hate being called skinny. i’m thin, and i’m not obsessed with food because i’m careful to make sure i have the right goals in mind. My best friend started liking kpop one or two years ago, I can't really remember, and it was healthy for a long time. I used to be obese, weighed at 97kg and then i lost 23 kgs. Open up a new checking account and direct your paychecks to that account. Everyone around me basically encourages me to keep restricting. Being skinny is usually associated with being in good shape and healthy. They hide under the mission that they care SO much about health and wellness that they’re just DISGUSTED by overweight and obese people because they think it proves those people are lazy, careless about what they put into their body, etc. Hi everyone! Long time lurker here, first post in this sub. You can build more healthy choices from there. ” Now I am an older man and she says, “eye-goo… you too fat. If you cant stop bringing the topic up when we are hangig out, I have to spend less time with you. I have so far lost almost 60 pounds in the past Now that online dating is a thing, and you have to put your height, it allows women to become unrealistically obsessive over that specific number down to the inch. [deleted] •. That said expecting you're typical dude to look like a GI Joe is ludicrous and harmful. It is toxic, but it is still an ongoing phenomenon. That is her job. It doesn't count for shit when you're 15 but at 35 a little body contentment goes a long way. You have to look like those models. You can live a life free from overwhelming thoughts about food and weight. Every single fucking day my mom comments on my body and my weight. We are a skinny-obsessed civilization, and it is notorious. Much like an Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous group, we offer emotional support and harm reduction but no encouragement of furthering ED behaviors. it’s long, but worth the read ️ ️. Curvy is beautiful is just a baby step to chubby is the new skinny is a step towards fat is beautiful is a step towards the decline of societal and health standards in the west. But something to consider is how unhealthy the mentality of this is in Korea. Your job is to focus on your own thoughts. I was diagnosed Type 2 Diabetic about 6 weeks ago. She loved to literally just sit & mock people at the grocery store or mall for being fat, gawk at them openly, often said people (including me) were “towering over her” and was very Learn to be more comfortable and confident with being you. It was not that they had a thin body or even that it was very thin that was the most problematic part. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. This adds up. I'm not talking about someone packing a few extra pounds or being chubby. Before you only needed to work a be the head of the home to be a man. To put this a bit in context: I'm fat, I like being fat and I find fat people more attractive; I know it's something rare and that morbid obesity is a health problem, I'm chubby but far from being morbidly obese, and morbid obesity doesn't seem attractive to me either. We both click very well, we have so many similar interests, we have a generally great time "I understand that being skinny is important for you but it would be nice if you would be considerate of others. She kept ranting see how tinnnnnnny (in that wannabe Lokhandwala cum USA accent) waist is all the time and kept showing off how much she eats and doesn't gain. , broccoli) and other foods as only bad (e. There is actually like way more pedophiles than you think, almost all of them are men. I've always been obsessed with being skinny to the point where it was unhealthy As my blood sugar plummets to the ground, and I start to fade in and out of consciousness, I'm starting to wish that people know that it's possible for diabetics to have eating disorders. I understand how you feel. I’ll just say it- there’s a huge amount of men who like underweight/extremely skinny young looking women…because they’re pedophiles. 46M subscribers in the AskReddit community. It was the way that it was glorified, highlighted, and effectively 'sold' as a lifestyle that made it a toxic and dangerous example to set for young Obsessed with being better than everyone else. I have an overpowering yearning to be better than everyone else and I hate it when others are better than me. My mom knows I don’t eat and doesn’t care, my sister believes I’m just faking The matriarch said “oh, you must be hungry!” I was 5 months pregnant so yes, I was—but to her, even being pregnant, I was eating a lot. So being skinny is considered important for women by society/beauty/media standards. It's a reaction to the disappearance of traditional gender roles. After medication, I tried to get out of the house and cultivate some hobbies that didn't involve staring at screens: I became completely obsessed with gardening for a few months. It allows them to cherry pick another premeditated trait to fit into their fairytale fantasy of finding that perfect guy. "All our lives, the pressure to be thin comes from so many directions," Brown said 5'4". Almost every facial feature can vary widely and still be attractive. So many are taught from a young age that their looks are everything. Hello! If you have struggled/ are struggling with anorexia, I would strongly discourage you from asking for help from people on reddit who are going through their own diet struggles. Or some guys just prefer the appearance of fat chicks and that's okay too! Just do what feels good. I’m 5’1 and about 115, always been a skinny/petite little woman. Ham Princess - Two short stories in one post. Ethan also encouraged Stavros to get on ozempic, saying it was a good drug and can make you I don’t have an eating disorder, but I do have issues eating. ” When she’s not even fat, and just midsize or has some meat. TL;DR is that people pull out their phones b/c we're too cool for awkward silences. AutoModerator. A skinny person can say they are hungry 40 times a day but if a fat person says they are hungry first, it’s seen as “oh of course the fatty’s already hungry”. I think I've met a total of one Thai woman who was obsessed with being very skinny, and she had an eating disorder. May 23, 2022 · It’s a certitude of my life, and it’s something that everyone around me senses the need to comment on. I went to therapy for other things and learned that much of my other concerns pushed me towards food. I used to be so obsessed with being thin in high school that I do crazy things like drink ACV straight or have 5 cups of green tea a day, etc. Crypto Ethan obsessed with weight. I want to become skinny skinny so bad that some days i dont eat nothing at all and other days i binge out real badly and regret and which further ruins my day. Hell, just go out with your friends one day for the hell of it. This is a place to ask questions. They are extremely abusive and your mother is projecting her self image on to you. Eat a bunch of junk food but also add in one healthy thing that you sincerely like and find easy to prepare. Lots of new fruits, vegetables, and roots being added to my diet to help lower my glycemic index. Best of luck to you in getting a plan that works for you without stressing you out. I love to eat, yet I'm still thin af. In a culture dominated by perfection and obsessed with thinness, we are bombarded with artificially-produced images of flawlessly sculpted men and women. ADMIN MOD. Being thin is also normal and a natural body condition. The fat acceptance movement takes the concept of being happy with yourself and twists it. Listen to your body. In college, I gained 15 lbs (freshman 15 exactly) and have been unable to get back down to my old weight. 3M subscribers in the teenagers community. It’s just posture/pose/lighting. help. This is the 2nd time in my life I have needed to relearn how to eat. i’ve also never really been tempted to do either. I have been losing weight for almost four years now (started in May 2015), with two breaks in 2016 and in 2018, during which my weight stabilized and I was more or less eating at maintenance. I'm 22, he's 24. "The I still hate how it's shoved at me when I go anywhere. Being fat is the worst sort of ugly. Just do that for a week or two as a start, and give yourself credit every day that you do it. gym rats This writer is shit. I think that's because we are lonely. I didn't mind it bcs it was completely okay. . Measuring our worth. She wants to pay me to exercise so I’ll get prettier bc of course weight=beauty🤡, so I’ll finally have a boyfriend, so I can be a dainty, small Asian daughter like she was. Business, Economics, and Finance. In some cases it’s a matter of powerful personal choice overriding public opinion. Uppers: In New York if you’re very thin you’re doing the three C’s (Cocaine, cigarettes, caffeine) to curb appetite. People literally spend their lives trying to be successful enough to be able to not care/bubble themselves away from real world problems. If you mean "why" in another way, they the answer is because I want to be. This subreddit is not officially associated with the support group Eating Disorders Anonymous. And the bad effects spread by Korean online media over the past 20 years. Nowadays women get more plastic surgery, fillers and Botox than any generation of all time. We blow our brains out with EDM because words and feelings are too much, we don't "do" relationships anymore (we "talk"), we A subreddit for news, culture, and life on the Korean Peninsula. I feel awful all the time and it’s not even worth it cuz I still look like a fat pig. But in Korea, it is the standard to be extremely skinny or you are fat. I’ve lost 40 pounds from anorexia so far and I’m not even underweight yet. It's not just the fat that disgusts me, it's the mentality behind it. Reddit, this relationship has been one hell of an awesome thing for me. i’ve never been conventionally “beautiful” in my opinion. The lack of registering anger as an emotion on reddit blows my mind Similarly, the accusation of anger towards a strictly logical response. You know you’re the fat friend in a group when you will not (no matter how hungry you are) be the first one to say you’re hungry. It looks like I'm incapable of being single and life is simply boring and not pleasant enough To your comment on being skinny Not skinny shaming at all! Some people are naturally thin. It’s Jun 4, 2015 · In a culture that says our self worth is determined by our appearance, bucking the imposed norm can be difficult. He was a very manipulative guy, he knew I liked him and would do anything for him, so he gave me so much attention for a few months. I'm tired of pretending that there is nothing wrong with fat people. 2 fat logic stories! Being obsessed with fat people. 2. I’m a mid-sized girl, with a large nose, & skin that breaks out of the temperature changes. u can still be skinny and eat whatever u want that's what i do now, for example lately ive been addicted to red vines, very few ppl can do this in moderation naturally though so u just need to up ur intake of caffeine/nicotine. Regarding your body, you stop caring about how it looks and instead care about how healthy it should be. 1. improve yourself, go to the gym, hang out with friends if you have any. I realized I needed to educate myself to make healthier choices for the rest of my life if I wanted to lose the weight, be healthy, and stay that way. otherwise if u want to BUT don’t forget even if you are jacked if you’re 5’2 that doesn’t make you all of a sudden gods gift to women lol, it’s better than being fat though. Why are people so obsessed with being skinny? Like you are not allowed to have any meat on you. nx hn fq so tl ig rc wo sq xb